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The Myth of Balance: How Real Woman Make It Work

Kellie Hoover and Leah Williams Episode 29

Episode 29: The Myth of Balance: How Real Woman Make It Work

Episode Summary:

In this insightful episode of the Women of Fort Mill podcast, co-hosts Kelly and Leah tackle the often-debated concept of "balance" for real women and mothers. They delve into whether true balance exists, how its definition varies for each individual, and share their personal strategies for managing busy lives, growing businesses, and family priorities. The discussion highlights the importance of prioritizing what truly matters, adjusting expectations, and releasing the need for absolute control to reduce stress and find fulfillment.


Episode Highlights:

Redefining Balance: Kelly and Leah explore the idea that balance isn't about equal distribution across all life quadrants, but rather prioritizing what's most important in a given season, such as family over friends or business.

The Power of Prioritization: Kelly shares her personal system of prioritizing family first, followed by business, and how she schedules her mornings to accommodate both. Leah emphasizes that her son is her number one priority, and how the flexibility of her business allows her to drop everything for urgent family needs.

Releasing Control and Stress: Leah discusses her biggest area of growth: learning to give up control and trust that doing her best is enough, which has significantly reduced her stress levels.

Being Present: Kelly highlights the importance of "being where your feet are planted" and putting down to-do lists to be fully present in the moment with family, friends, or work.

The Importance of Community: Both hosts underscore the value of surrounding yourself with supportive women who understand your priorities and encourage personal and business growth. Leah explains how her focus on adding value to others has attracted outstanding women into her life.

Non-Negotiable Routines: Kelly reveals her commitment to scheduling personal time (gym, self-grounding) and dedicated family time on her calendar every Sunday as non-negotiables to maintain her foundation and prevent feeling off-balance.

Advice for Overwhelmed Moms: Leah advises moms to recognize that seasons of life change and priorities will evolve. She suggests interchanging activities to make downtime more productive and fulfilling. A key takeaway is to identify 2-3 core priorities for the current season and say "no" to anything that doesn't align, saving mental energy and fostering intentionality.


Final Takeaway: 

Balance isn't about perfection or equal distribution; it's about anchoring your life around what gives you peace and what's most important in this season, understanding that these priorities will evolve over time.


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